--- product_id: 6949059 title: "The Divorce Remedy: The Proven 7-Step Program for Saving Your Marriage" brand: "michele weiner davis" price: "£22.30" currency: GBP in_stock: true reviews_count: 8 url: https://www.desertcart.co.uk/products/6949059-the-divorce-remedy-the-proven-7-step-program-for-saving store_origin: GB region: United Kingdom --- # The Divorce Remedy: The Proven 7-Step Program for Saving Your Marriage **Brand:** michele weiner davis **Price:** £22.30 **Availability:** ✅ In Stock ## Quick Answers - **What is this?** The Divorce Remedy: The Proven 7-Step Program for Saving Your Marriage by michele weiner davis - **How much does it cost?** £22.30 with free shipping - **Is it available?** Yes, in stock and ready to ship - **Where can I buy it?** [www.desertcart.co.uk](https://www.desertcart.co.uk/products/6949059-the-divorce-remedy-the-proven-7-step-program-for-saving) ## Best For - michele weiner davis enthusiasts ## Why This Product - Trusted michele weiner davis brand quality - Free international shipping included - Worldwide delivery with tracking - 15-day hassle-free returns ## Description The Divorce Remedy: The Proven 7-Step Program for Saving Your Marriage ## Images ![The Divorce Remedy: The Proven 7-Step Program for Saving Your Marriage - Image 1](https://m.media-amazon.com/images/I/51XdMaDGiTL.jpg) ![The Divorce Remedy: The Proven 7-Step Program for Saving Your Marriage - Image 2](https://m.media-amazon.com/images/I/51E1u8n1vCL.jpg) ![The Divorce Remedy: The Proven 7-Step Program for Saving Your Marriage - Image 3](https://m.media-amazon.com/images/I/41sQnLAT2dL.jpg) ![The Divorce Remedy: The Proven 7-Step Program for Saving Your Marriage - Image 4](https://m.media-amazon.com/images/I/41Wd5a94xTL.jpg) ## Customer Reviews ### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ This is a long review to give you more information! *by S***H on Reviewed in the United States 🇺🇸 on August 21, 2008* Having read just about every relationship and divorce book on the market, it is this one that I buy multiple copies of and give to all my friends, relatives and others. Why? First, many marriage-saving books are written from a religious perspective, but this one is not. It is not that she is anti-religious, just that you don't have to be religious to enjoy the book. I also like the fact that it is not that she thinks divorce immoral, just that she sees how miserable it makes even those who initiate it, in many cases. On page 14 of her other excellent book  Divorce Busting: A Step-by-Step Approach to Making Your Marriage Loving Again , Michele Weiner-Davis writes: "MOST PROBLEMS ARE SOLVABLE. I have not arrived at this conclusion based on religious or moralistic views. From my perspective, divorce is not immoral or bad. In fact, in extreme cases, certain relationships are better off terminated for the health and well-being of everyone involved."Many books are very negative and encourage behavior guaranteed to destroy a relationship instead of helping. This book is positive, gives the reader hope, and backs that up with concrete, specific, clear suggestions for what to actually do in practice to maximize the chance of saving your marriage.I like the fact that she points out that your friends, family, and therapist may well push you to end your marriage, if only because they only hear your own side of the story. This is so true. It is a pity people nowadays make the mistake of bad-mouthing their spouse to others. John Gottman, too, has written that this is one of the things that jeopardizes marriages. ( Ten Lessons to Transform Your Marriage: America's Love Lab Experts Share Their Strategies for Strengthening Your Relationship )It is no good giving this book to a spouse who wants a divorce: it is not written for the person who wants a divorce but those who are prepared to make changes to save their marriage, or those who are at least willing to give their spouse another chance. If you are the spouse wanting a divorce, you might find it useful to give this book to your spouse, though you should of course make it clear that this is not intended to give your spouse hope. To the extent that your spouse adopts the author's suggestions, both you and your spouse will find life more pleasant, and it may well help your spouse to feel better whether or not it saves your marriage. (You too may be surprised if you adopt her suggestions!)For those not wanting to end your marriage, if only it could be a bit less ghastly, a bit more enjoyable, this is THE book to read. If you try the suggestions in this book and it still doesn't work, then at least you will know you did everything possible to save your marriage.Many of the suggestions are for very small changes that can have surprisingly large effects. Things you can actually do even in the midst of terrible turmoil and fear of loss of your marriage. Her suggestions will help you feel better about yourself AND better about your spouse.What is so beautiful about Weiner Davis's writing and this book in particular, is that she manages to be kind not just to the reader, but to the reader's spouse as well. For example, in Chapter 2, Weiner-Davis helps you to see that it is possible that each of you is mistakenly but very understandably blaming the other: "interactions in relationships are circular. You do something->your partner responds->you react->your partner responds, or, if it makes you feel better, you can view it the other way around. Your partner does something->you react->your partner responds->you react, and so on. Where the cycle begins is just a matter of perspective. And the good news about all of this is that when things are spiraling out of control, there is something you can do other than try to convince your partner to change. You can interrupt the cycle by changing your actions."There are so many otherwise worthwhile books that are marred either by the writer being nasty to the reader (IMO, Dr Laura's books often fall into this category) or by the writer being nasty about the reader's spouse or encouraging the victim mentality. To create a good relationship, good will is required, and it is difficult to develop good will when the relationship is on the rocks, but if any book can help you do this, it is this one by Michele Weiner Davis.Another problem with many relationship and marriage saving books is that they require both spouses to work on the marriage. We all know how unlikely that is, even in the best of marriages! This book assumes that only ONE of you wants to work on the marriage, and that there is never any question of the other person being expected to help save the marriage is very freeing and cheering, because it gives the reader hope and removes the feeling of powerlessness that is engendered when you read a book that assumes you both want to make changes together. As you yourself take action to improve your own life and treat your spouse well (but no, we are NOT talking being a doormat, here!) you start to feel less panic-stricken, more calm and peaceful, less out of control, and you can then hold your head high.This author is nothing short of a genius. Read her books. Unless you are the most negative, cynical person I can imagine, you will find her ideas very practical, very helpful, and very much worth the price of the book.All her books are worth reading. This one is absolutely brilliant. ### ⭐ Outdated boomer advice and false hope. *by N***T on Reviewed in the United States 🇺🇸 on October 29, 2022* Beware that this book was written in the 90’s by a boomer MWD. In this day and age, boomer advice does not work for anyone other than boomers and older. The information in this book is outdated and inapplicable to modern society. I even bought the “coaching” sessions in the back of the book and it was futile too. This book was also recommended to me by the boomer “marriage counselor”. At the end of the day you really have to ask yourself: If your spouse really loves you, would they just leave you without giving your marriage a fighting chance? Would you really need to read books and watch videos on tricks, gimmicks and strategies so they don’t divorce you? No you wouldn’t.The biggest lie in this book is “time is the most valuable asset”. If your partner leaves you, and you give this space, time and friendliness; all it does is give them a guilt-free chance to ride off into the sunset while you get even more hurt in the end. It gives them even more time to find someone else or move on while you cling to hope that’s not there.Don’t do “discernment counseling” either. If you find yourself in this type of counseling, it’s over and it’s only so they can tell you their exit plans and blame everything on you.Avoid this book. ### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ It worked! *by C***R on Reviewed in the United States 🇺🇸 on January 31, 2018* My husband has been in love with someone else (20 years younger and stunning) for more than a year, said he was filing for divorce and was about to move out. Said he didn't love me anymore. Didn't care what God, researchers, our children, parents, friends thought. DONE. I bought this book a month ago and gave Michele's methods a good try, even though I was 90% sure my husband was too far gone. Knowing my days were numbered, I read the book more than five times and spent hours on the divorcebusting.com online community. I started GAL (Getting a Life), exercising, eating healthy (but haven't lost weight yet), wearing different clothes (but not seductive or anything), doing different things, having a little fun, stopped talking about the relationship, kept my mouth shut! No more pressure, criticism, or unforgiveness. There will be time to work on issues later, but not if he's GONE. I developed extreme patience. I secretly took notes about what worked and didn't work, and noticed the small ways he was changing, which gave me hope. I ignored the other woman, hardest thing I've ever done! And... it is working! First, I noticed my husband just watching me with interest. Then, a few hugs and invitations out for low-key "dates". Sometimes I was available, sometimes not. Yesterday, he hugged me, kissed me, said he loves me and is determined to work things out with me. I can tell he really is ready now to work on the marriage and his issues. This man, who was prideful and rebellious, is now humbled and repentant. Truly a miracle. Go for it! Fire the marriage counselor and do what really works! There is too much divorce happening. Don't add to the stats. 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