The Queen's Code

As a man reading this book, it does give a deeper insight into what might be going on from my wife's perspective that I would not have ever come up with on my own. This helps me 1 be more compassionate and understanding when it comes to the misunderstandings as man and woman, and 2 also helps me communicate what my needs are as a man more eloquently instead of what may come off as brutish man speak or what ever. Very very good book for men and women both to read.

Illuminating! I am recommending this book to every woman I can think may be open to changing their outlook on men. A lot of hard truths to swallow, but the author reveals them to us in such a compassionate and loving way.

I highly recommend this book, but I recommend that you first read "the Keys to the Kingdom" because it explains some fundamentals about men that will help make sense of what is taught in this book. The way the story is told in "the Queen's Code" is a continuation of the story that began in "The Keys to the Kingdom" I know several reviews mentioned that this book could have been shorter and written more straight to the point, and yes, that is true However, her writing does have a purpose in that it unravels current belief systems to make room for new belief systems. I don't think that would be possible with a more concise straight to the point writing style. When I was researching the book I stumbled upon a PDF document that took notes on this book, "The Queen's Code." I read through the notes and thought to myself "I already know all of this stuff, so this book isn't going to help me at all." I read "Keys to the Kingdom" instead and I am glad that I did, because I learned a lot and it ended up inspiring me to purchase "The Queen's Code." As I was reading "The Queen's Code" I revisited the PDF with the notes, and suddenly I understood the meaning behind the notes. One example is being open, receptive and vulnerable. Most women know that already and we have an idea of what that might mean and look like from a woman's point of view, but we really don't know what that means from a man's point of view, what being open, receptive and vulnerable does to a man, and what kind of openness, receptiveness and vulnerability men desire. Please don't brush this off as "I know what being open, receptive and vulnerable means." If you've had little success in fulfilling relationships with men, then you truly don't know what being open, receptive and vulnerable means from a man's perspective (amongst other things) and you may benefit from the refreshing perspective and explanation this book offers, along with "The Keys to the Kingdom" You're most likely here because you want something to change and get better, but may not now how, and most of the time, what you're resistant to is most likely going to challenge your core beliefs, and perhaps your core beliefs are the reason you ended up searching for a solution to begin with. My guess is that at this point, you don't have much else to lose and just want things to get better. In that case, I highly recommend you start with "The Keys to the Kingdom" (and please ignore the neutral and negative reviews to that book) and then continue with the "Queen's Code." They complement each other in a beautiful way and work together hand in hand to improve your relationships with men. Please give them a try 🤍 I promise, you will have a shift in perspective & understanding of men, and a shift in behavior, which will positively impact your relationship with men in general.

This book holds incredible wisdom that can make the world feel softer. For anyone that has been hurt, or for anyone who struggles to understand our amazing counterparts, or for anyone trying to reach perfection, this book was beautifully created for us.

From my perspective being male, I found the information presented by Alison in her book The Queens Code to be on point. I don't recall there being anything I found objectional. I loved the way the storyline and the information flowed. In my own life, I have tried to convey some of the same sentiments, definitely not as articulate or concise as Alison presents them here. Three things I truly appreciate about this book: 1. It helped me to clearly understand what I was feeling. 2. It helped me to clarify the ideas I wanted to convey. 3. The Queens code speaks to an issue long plaguing male/female relationships and offered a solution. Take aways: - Building up a man gets the woman what she needs faster and more often than tearing him down. - Emasculating men never motivates them. - Open communication, honesty, and setting expectations are important in any relationship. - Sharing with your partner what you need from them and what it means or provide to you when they do it. I love this book. It is a great read and I have recommended it to whoever I believe will benefit from reading it, male or female. I have even bought copies for my girls, ages 33 and 25. My hope is that when they have completed the book, we can have an open discussion about the concepts presented by Alison.

I expected more of a lecture style but the story format made it easy to understand. I LOVED it and took many notes to review. I am already putting the principles into practice with men!

I adore this novel style relationship book!!! It's readable and helpful!

I think this book has the ability to change lives, relationships and marriages in an amazing way! It truly was a pleasure to read. Its focus on the different ways that men and women approach the world is truly helpful and eye-opening. Highly recommended!

Every woman should read that book, so happy I read it, it has gave me so many hope and I loved it

I rarely review books on Amazon (simply because I never seem to have the time) and I have never followed an author on Amazon. Alison Armstrong and her wise and precious teachings have inspired me to do both. And much more. They have also given me the time to do both. . . Because I am learning how to receive in ways I have never experienced before, and this is giving me much more time to be in my life. Both this, and her preceding book ‘Keys to the Kingdom’ (which needs to be read FIRST), are beyond value. Gentle, practical, inclusive and deeply wise, they give men and women back to themselves by helping us to understand the inherent gifts of our sex and that of the opposite sex, and by teaching us how to navigate the differences and communicate effectively within them. Men have become wise and beautiful beings in my eyes, towering sources of strength and kindness who give deep structure to life; women have become magical and mysterious weavers of beauty and meaning, attending and receiving life in ways that enable its warm and wondrous flourishing. I feel grateful for the wisdom of Alison Armstrong who holds both the masculine and feminine in such regard and delivers so much wisdom with so much kindness and humour. The book is written with true skill and mastery and is utterly enjoyable. Part romance consisting of the stories of three couples of varying ages and degrees of commitment, part practical manual for how relationships can deeply work, and part paean to the wonders of both sexes, it is a book to cherish. If you are open to it, it will open you, your heart, your life.

Wow!!! I am blown away by Alison's insight, and wisdom. This is the first time, in a very long time that I've heard the perspective of a woman who genuinely loves, and admires men. I definitely recommend this book to anyone who believes (or wants to believe) that men and women can empower each other and truly become Partners. This book will definitely start you on that path

Even with the best intentions towards men, we still might have habits that make us frog farmers. This story gently help us become aware of these habits and provides us with understanding and alternative practices.

I loved the context, mix between learning and following a story. I've stated to recomend it my friends that believe in the same as the book. It is a 5 star book, deseres a 5 stars.