--- product_id: 329906834 title: "I Hate You--Don't Leave Me: Third Edition: Understanding the Borderline Personality" price: "£14.76" currency: GBP in_stock: true reviews_count: 13 url: https://www.desertcart.co.uk/products/329906834-i-hate-you-dont-leave-me-third-edition-understanding-borderline store_origin: GB region: United Kingdom --- # I Hate You--Don't Leave Me: Third Edition: Understanding the Borderline Personality **Price:** £14.76 **Availability:** ✅ In Stock ## Quick Answers - **What is this?** I Hate You--Don't Leave Me: Third Edition: Understanding the Borderline Personality - **How much does it cost?** £14.76 with free shipping - **Is it available?** Yes, in stock and ready to ship - **Where can I buy it?** [www.desertcart.co.uk](https://www.desertcart.co.uk/products/329906834-i-hate-you-dont-leave-me-third-edition-understanding-borderline) ## Best For - Customers looking for quality international products ## Why This Product - Free international shipping included - Worldwide delivery with tracking - 15-day hassle-free returns ## Description After more than three decades as the essential guide to borderline personality disorder (BPD), the third edition of I HATE YOU―DON'T LEAVE ME now reflects the most up-to-date research that has opened doors to the neurobiological, genetic, and developmental roots of the disorder, as well as connections between BPD and substance abuse, sexual abuse, post-traumatic stress syndrome, ADHD, and eating disorders. Both pharmacological and psychotherapeutic advancements point to real hope for success in the treatment and understanding of BPD. This expanded and revised edition is an invaluable resource for those diagnosed with BPD and their family, friends, and colleagues, as well as professionals and students in the field, and the practical tools and advice are easy to understand and use in your day-to-day interactions with the borderline individuals in your life. Review: BPD - A very insightful for those suffering from BDP/EUPD and for family members to gain information if you are lucky enough to have family that care, mine don't. Review: Fascinating insight into Borderline Personality Disorder - I’ve been meaning to reread this for a long time and am so glad I did. I found it hugely informative and relatable (to those with BPD like me) Fascinating that up to 6% of Americans exhibit primary symptoms of BPD although many studies suggest this figure is an underestimate. In most cases BPD is a secondary diagnosis such as alcoholism, anorexia, depression, psychosis, bipolar, anxiety and so on. I was diagnosed with depression in the UK. And it is officially recognised as a major mental health problem in America today. The author calls it ‘a modern-day plague.’ There were some interesting I nuggets of nsightssuch as the fact that many BPDs have decreased sensitivity to acute pain (such as self-inflicted) but high sensitivity to chronic pain. Also that BPD exists on a spectrum of course, with many possible permuations. Another reason it’s not easy to diagnose. The book gives a sensitive but clinical in-depth analysis of the condition of BPD with a large chunk of it reassuringly devoted to how to heal. Because healing is definitely possible when the pwBPD becomes aware they have a problem – usually because of some crisis situation. Knowledge is power and I believe this book will help those with BPD and their loved ones to understand and therefore seek a cure. I highlighted around a thousand words of the book and even (rather obsessively!) copied out the quotes in a word document so I could re-read it at my leisure – it was that good and more importantly – that helpful. ## Features - New Store Stock ## Technical Specifications | Specification | Value | |---------------|-------| | Best Sellers Rank | 10,987 in Books ( See Top 100 in Books ) 15 in Mood Disorders (Books) 135 in Psychological Schools of Thought 223 in Specific Psychological Topics | | Customer Reviews | 4.6 out of 5 stars 2,318 Reviews | ## Images ![I Hate You--Don't Leave Me: Third Edition: Understanding the Borderline Personality - Image 1](https://m.media-amazon.com/images/I/71LhPllVUPL.jpg) ## Customer Reviews ### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ BPD *by G***A on 13 May 2026* A very insightful for those suffering from BDP/EUPD and for family members to gain information if you are lucky enough to have family that care, mine don't. ### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Fascinating insight into Borderline Personality Disorder *by J***E on 29 August 2024* I’ve been meaning to reread this for a long time and am so glad I did. I found it hugely informative and relatable (to those with BPD like me) Fascinating that up to 6% of Americans exhibit primary symptoms of BPD although many studies suggest this figure is an underestimate. In most cases BPD is a secondary diagnosis such as alcoholism, anorexia, depression, psychosis, bipolar, anxiety and so on. I was diagnosed with depression in the UK. And it is officially recognised as a major mental health problem in America today. The author calls it ‘a modern-day plague.’ There were some interesting I nuggets of nsightssuch as the fact that many BPDs have decreased sensitivity to acute pain (such as self-inflicted) but high sensitivity to chronic pain. Also that BPD exists on a spectrum of course, with many possible permuations. Another reason it’s not easy to diagnose. The book gives a sensitive but clinical in-depth analysis of the condition of BPD with a large chunk of it reassuringly devoted to how to heal. Because healing is definitely possible when the pwBPD becomes aware they have a problem – usually because of some crisis situation. Knowledge is power and I believe this book will help those with BPD and their loved ones to understand and therefore seek a cure. I highlighted around a thousand words of the book and even (rather obsessively!) copied out the quotes in a word document so I could re-read it at my leisure – it was that good and more importantly – that helpful. ### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Very insightful *by A***Y on 19 December 2024* I would recommend to anyone who is or knows someone with BPD ## Frequently Bought Together - I Hate You--Don't Leave Me: Third Edition: Understanding the Borderline Personality - Stop Walking on Eggshells: Taking Your Life Back When Someone You Care About Has Borderline Personality Disorder - Loving Someone with Borderline Personality Disorder: How to Keep Out-of-Control Emotions from Destroying Your Relationship --- ## Why Shop on Desertcart? - 🛒 **Trusted by 1.3+ Million Shoppers** — Serving international shoppers since 2016 - 🌍 **Shop Globally** — Access 737+ million products across 21 categories - 💰 **No Hidden Fees** — All customs, duties, and taxes included in the price - 🔄 **15-Day Free Returns** — Hassle-free returns (30 days for PRO members) - 🔒 **Secure Payments** — Trusted payment options with buyer protection - ⭐ **TrustPilot Rated 4.5/5** — Based on 8,000+ happy customer reviews **Shop now:** [https://www.desertcart.co.uk/products/329906834-i-hate-you-dont-leave-me-third-edition-understanding-borderline](https://www.desertcart.co.uk/products/329906834-i-hate-you-dont-leave-me-third-edition-understanding-borderline) --- *Product available on Desertcart United Kingdom* *Store origin: GB* *Last updated: 2026-06-07*