--- product_id: 300583666 title: "When Your Daughter Has BPD" price: "£37.12" currency: GBP in_stock: true reviews_count: 6 url: https://www.desertcart.co.uk/products/300583666-when-your-daughter-has-bpd store_origin: GB region: United Kingdom --- # When Your Daughter Has BPD **Price:** £37.12 **Availability:** ✅ In Stock ## Quick Answers - **What is this?** When Your Daughter Has BPD - **How much does it cost?** £37.12 with free shipping - **Is it available?** Yes, in stock and ready to ship - **Where can I buy it?** [www.desertcart.co.uk](https://www.desertcart.co.uk/products/300583666-when-your-daughter-has-bpd) ## Best For - Customers looking for quality international products ## Why This Product - Free international shipping included - Worldwide delivery with tracking - 15-day hassle-free returns ## Description When Your Daughter Has BPD : Lobel, Daniel S., Ph.D.: desertcart.in: Books Review: Good one, useful - For the family members of such a person, would help in managing better. Should be read by parents and close ones Review: This book takes a confrontational approach. It advocates the liberal use of hospital visits to defuse the outcomes. The book doesn’t hold out hope of a cure from what I could see. ## Technical Specifications | Specification | Value | |---------------|-------| | ASIN | 1626259569 | | Best Sellers Rank | #528,028 in Books ( See Top 100 in Books ) #1,336 in Self-Help for Anger Management #8,104 in Family & Relationships #13,857 in Health, Fitness & Nutrition | | Country of Origin | United Kingdom | | Customer Reviews | 4.6 4.6 out of 5 stars (881) | | Dimensions | 15.24 x 1.12 x 22.86 cm | | Edition | 1st | | Generic Name | 1 | | ISBN-10 | 9781626259560 | | ISBN-13 | 978-1626259560 | | Importer | Atlantic Publishers and Distributors (P) Ltd., 7/22, Ansari Road, Darya Ganj, New Delhi - 110002 INDIA, Email – customercare@atlanticbooks.com, Ph – 011-47320500 | | Item Weight | 1 kg 50 g | | Language | English | | Packer | New Harbinger Publications | | Print length | 190 pages | | Publication date | 1 December 2017 | | Publisher | New Harbinger Pubns Inc | | Reading age | 5 years and up | ## Images ![When Your Daughter Has BPD - Image 1](https://m.media-amazon.com/images/I/81nzWrGGH-L.jpg) ## Customer Reviews ### ⭐⭐⭐ Good one, useful *by A***Y on 28 January 2022* For the family members of such a person, would help in managing better. Should be read by parents and close ones ### ⭐ Review *by L***R on 24 February 2023* This book takes a confrontational approach. It advocates the liberal use of hospital visits to defuse the outcomes. The book doesn’t hold out hope of a cure from what I could see. ### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Review *by G***M on 13 December 2018* This is the book I absolutely needed and have been searching for after purchasing a couple of others (another dedicated to teens and then a more general one for families which includes BPD patients of all ages). I went straight to parenting skills needed and "Step 1: Stop the Bleeding" chapters and this alone was worth it's weight in gold. These chapters provide specific examples of what to say and what not to say, how to handle situations, and how to navigate the delicate balance of promoting independence without the threat of abandonment. There are also some things that I needed to hear loud and clear to help me continue meeting my own needs and living my life while she is on HER journey. I have not read the entire book so I cannot ascertain to what degree it is helpful for older daughters (discussed by one previous reviewer.) I suspect that a lot can be applied with thoughtfulness. The examples in the Step 1 chapter do demonstrate examples with teenage daughters. I would also believe that all of the advice would pertain to sons with BPD as well, (and those parents would just have to get over the focused language/examples for daughters.) I completely disagree with the one reviewer who was sensitive to the "monster" analogy. On pg. 52 the author includes advice of "Starving the Monster." He writes: "A well-fed monster, a severe disorder that drives your daughter's unhealthy behaviors, is the result of giving in to unrealistic demands. If you are like most parents of children with BPD, the giving in usually occurs after your child ramps up her aggressive behavior toward you every time she does not get what she wants when she wants it." In my opinion, the author is clearly stating that the child is not a monster, it is THE DISORDER. He also writes: "starving the monster" will be met with resistance in the form of escalating aggression, and a three step restorative process is provided to weather the resistance and transition. The descriptive language that my spouse and I used in the past included "rollercoaster behavior" and "Jekyll and Hyde." In my opinion, this is not a negative book, it is reality. The monster term I find reinforcing to help parents stick with the new parenting communication and boundary skills so that your child's behavior improves instead of staying the same or getting worse. I am concerned with seeing the number of helpful comments for that paticular negative review, that maybe some people are not giving the content a fair chance after reading all of the 4 and 5 star reviews. My constructive criticism for the author would be to include an example list of detailed boundaries for both parents and child with BPD. It would be best to have one example for a teenage daughter with BPD and another for an adult daughter with BPD. I was hoping to avoid inventing the wheel, but not having any luck finding a good starting point anywhere on the internet specific to teenagers with BPD. The really rough draft I received from a family therapist is heavily one-sided on the part of the child and it is important for the child to see how the parent is adhering to certain (and maybe new) boundaries/tasks/practices/strategies as well. ## Frequently Bought Together - When Your Daughter Has BPD - Stop Walking on Eggshells: Taking Your Life Back When Someone You Care About Has Borderline Personality Disorder - Stop Walking on Eggshells for Parents: How to Help Your Child (of Any Age) with Borderline Personality Disorder Without Losing Yourself --- ## Why Shop on Desertcart? - 🛒 **Trusted by 1.3+ Million Shoppers** — Serving international shoppers since 2016 - 🌍 **Shop Globally** — Access 737+ million products across 21 categories - 💰 **No Hidden Fees** — All customs, duties, and taxes included in the price - 🔄 **15-Day Free Returns** — Hassle-free returns (30 days for PRO members) - 🔒 **Secure Payments** — Trusted payment options with buyer protection - ⭐ **TrustPilot Rated 4.5/5** — Based on 8,000+ happy customer reviews **Shop now:** [https://www.desertcart.co.uk/products/300583666-when-your-daughter-has-bpd](https://www.desertcart.co.uk/products/300583666-when-your-daughter-has-bpd) --- *Product available on Desertcart United Kingdom* *Store origin: GB* *Last updated: 2026-05-20*