--- product_id: 203898500 title: "Cheating in a Nutshell: What Infidelity Does to The Victim (Asked, Answered and Explained)" brand: "wayne mitchelltamara mitchell" price: "£18.41" currency: GBP in_stock: true reviews_count: 9 url: https://www.desertcart.co.uk/products/203898500-cheating-in-a-nutshell-what-infidelity-does-to-the-victim store_origin: GB region: United Kingdom --- # Cheating in a Nutshell: What Infidelity Does to The Victim (Asked, Answered and Explained) **Brand:** wayne mitchelltamara mitchell **Price:** £18.41 **Availability:** ✅ In Stock ## Quick Answers - **What is this?** Cheating in a Nutshell: What Infidelity Does to The Victim (Asked, Answered and Explained) by wayne mitchelltamara mitchell - **How much does it cost?** £18.41 with free shipping - **Is it available?** Yes, in stock and ready to ship - **Where can I buy it?** [www.desertcart.co.uk](https://www.desertcart.co.uk/products/203898500-cheating-in-a-nutshell-what-infidelity-does-to-the-victim) ## Best For - wayne mitchelltamara mitchell enthusiasts ## Why This Product - Trusted wayne mitchelltamara mitchell brand quality - Free international shipping included - Worldwide delivery with tracking - 15-day hassle-free returns ## Description Cheating in a Nutshell: What Infidelity Does to The Victim (Asked, Answered and Explained) ## Images ![Cheating in a Nutshell: What Infidelity Does to The Victim (Asked, Answered and Explained) - Image 1](https://m.media-amazon.com/images/I/51WLWDWllKS.jpg) ## Customer Reviews ### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ 5.0 out of 5 stars Best Book for the Betrayed *by M***S on Reviewed in the United States on August 28, 2020* Another reviewer noted this book is ahead of its time in that it accurately portrays what victims of infidelity experience. An affair is never the fault of the person who was cheated on. Never. And this book shows how we need to stop trivializing, excusing and even romanticizing infidelity. Wayne and Tamara Mitchell cite years of letters from the cheated-upon, the other woman/man, the cheaters, and the children of parents who cheated to show the real effects of betrayal. The focus is on the betrayed not the cheater, and if you've been cheated on, I agree with other reviewers: this is the best book, the only one you need. Marriage counselors should add it to their libraries too.The authors cite psychological studies about gut reactions, primitive responses, etc. to illustrate why being cheated on is so traumatic. They also cite studies of how humans make decisions, assess risk, are informed by bias, etc. in chapters discussing why people choose to stay or leave a relationship. If you are considering those options, the scientific studies referenced in this book might lend some clarity to that process.Finally, there is practical advice for what the betrayed partner can do to heal. In one study, the authors cite Dr. Glenn Schiardi's work on PTSD, types of trauma humans experience and how easy each type is to get over. Looking at that research, Wayne and Tamra note, "The hardest events to overcome are those which are man-made and deliberate. Cheating adds one additional element to that. Not only was the act man-made, not only was it deliberate, it was done by a person within our smallest circle of attachment. We believed they loved us . . ." Gut-wrenching. But you can heal. This book will help.This book is written with kindness and empathy and clear logic to help those who've been betrayed make informed choices about how to move forward in life. I agree with the other reviewers who say this is the only book on infidelity you need. ### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ 5.0 out of 5 stars A Keeper, A True Resource! *by J***E on Reviewed in the United States on November 27, 2022* I loved the style of writing, their rationale, the steps of recovery for the many of us impacted by the corrupt character of what we thought were committed spouses and partners. Wayne and Tamara covered so many of my thoughts and put it into words that had me sobbing ,meditating , empowered and sometimes speechless. It dispelled many a myth particularly the one that claims ‘The wife always knows’. Cheating is a choice..a character flaw, the act of a coward who brings devastation into the life of someone they so-call love. This book for me is a resource keeper for recovery for anyone who has been cheated on. I cannot identify it or call it an “affair”, that is something people generally take a gift too; Cheating is an underhanded, treacherous act of betrayal of one’s trust. That is its nature. Cheating destroys…the trust, commitment, and the vow of fidelity. To name a few. Participants of infidelity deserve at all times and in all situations to be exposed and kicked to the curb. The kids will make out better than one could imagine! Again, a well - written book on a very painful topic with real solutions for the innocent party who has been impacted. ### ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ 5.0 out of 5 stars Worth every penny! *by A***R on Reviewed in the United States on June 13, 2024* This book was enlightening, empowering and encouraging. I resonated with so many of the scenarios presented and the authors advice couldn’t be any more on point in so many aspects, it was eye opening to understand how universal this experience is and it helped me feel better about the shoes I’m in today and the steps I’ll be taking tomorrow. 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